Okay, so this may not be the most romantic date...and in many cases may not take place at night, but it just might be a great way to connect with your mate. I say so from experience. Ramy and I are in the middle of [a 3x a week for 6 weeks] boot camp. And though it is tough, our mutual support and encouragement get us through it. Better yet, after you get over the initial shook of boot camp, it feels really great to start exercising regularly again. If you aren't up for boot camp or need childcare, hit up the gym together instead. Many gyms offer free childcare to their members and have plenty of classes you can take together. Either way, set a goal and chase after it together. Then after your goal is met, take that beach body out for a real deal date with your mate!